Jackie's Journey to Julia

Monday, June 26, 2006

And still waiting

I am about to run out of patience.

I am still waiting --

The great news is that Joy's passport and all of our visas should arrive tomorrow.

The down side is that we still have no travel approval.

I am rationalizing --

Joy Loflin got travel approval 56 days after log in. I am now at 76 days after log in and still waiting. it has GOT to come this week. Heritage last received their travel approvals on May 31st. They have GOT TO be due.

In the mean time I AM NOW DONE DONE DONE WAITING. I am usually patient, but alas, I have HAD it!

All the news for today.

Jack

Saturday, June 24, 2006

Passport Adventures

I am still waiting for travel approval from the Chinese Government. It should honestly arrive ANY day -- how about Monday??? :)

In the mean time I have had a hellatious week waiting for passports and visas for the other three kids. The boys were fine but without making this blog a dissertation, the Houston Passport office that I was working with through my passport expediting agency misplaced Joy's Chinese adoption papers, her Chinese passport and all evidence that she is indeed who she is and was adopted in China by us. They kept claiming that they needed more notatarized evidence of the adoption. I ended up involving my congressman and after about 3 dozen phone calls, I finally got a call from the Houston passport agency on Friday morning saying that they had found Joy's papers and her passport was issued. THANK GOD!

I should have all of our pasports and visas in hand by Tuesday June 27th. At this point in time, if travel approval comes on Monday, I do not anticipate being able to leave for China before July 10th and I think that realistically, I will not be leaving before the 20th of July. I have several committments this summer and my two ideal windows for travel are after July 14th with a return before July 24th or leave on July 27th and return immediately following and before August 8th. We shall see....

For now, I continue to wait for my wee one. I wrote this little poem last week about waiting for travel approval.

Waiting for TA

Here is sit with cell phone in hand
The ringer is on high -- the phone is charged
I figure that my TA should be arriving
But Alas,I think it drown in the ocean while swimming

Here I sit at the computer each day
I check lists, emails, any sign of life out there?
Where oh where is my TA? Can anyone answer...
I ask again and all I get is internet conjecture

At night I hit the sack and pray ... not for my TA
But rather for my daughter who waits
My hope for travel is not my selfish desire
Instead it is the heartbreak of a mother whose daughter needs her

In my dreams, I pack and travel and see her
One night she was in the hotel next door and all I had to do
Was get the bunkbeds paid for and the go get her
Aren't dreams the easy answer always?

So here I sit. Waiting for an invitation. To travel.
My daughter is a world away. Waiting for a mom.
I pray each day that she will have dreams of me
Just as I have dreams of her each night.

My time will come and the plane will leave
Deep in China, I will hold the wee one
She is etched deep in my heart, imprinted on my deepest memory
But tonight, we will hold each other in our dreams alone

Oh travel approval.... swim faster.
Get a jet boat motor and hurry across the ocean
My cell phone is on. My e-mail is up.
And here, I wait for a word.

Jack
Waiting for Julia
Day 69 from Log In

Sunday, June 18, 2006

The start ... at least of the blog













Here is my family as of now ... Myself, Jacob (13), James (11) and Joy (5) ...





Okay, I have given in to the pressure of pop culture and started a blog for the journey of our family to add Miss Lauren Julia Hope Marsh to our family. Julia is currently waiting in China -- in Yangjiang in foster care under the supervision of Yangjiang orphanage. She will be 2 years old on June 28th and at this time it does not look like we will make it for that birthday.

We are waiting ... not so patiently for the arrival of our travel approval to leave. When that arrives Jacob, age 13, James age 11 and Joy age 5 will load a plane with me -- Mom, Jackie, to head to China. We will be traveling with my crazy friend Kelly and her girls, the oldest of whom is from Yangjiang as well.

I hope to post pictures and such for family and friends who will be waiting at home to hear of Julia's arrival. However, we can only hope that I will actually get myself together to get that done. Anyone who knows me... know that may be a shot in hell.

I will try to add pictures and such of my crew.

For anyone who reads this I ask for a couple of things

1) forgiveness for the offenses and mistakes I will undoubtedly make
2) prayers for my daughter Julia that her move to her new home will go smoothly
3) prayers for safety and an incredible travel journey for the four of us who are going

Thoughts welcome....

Jackie